{"id":5676,"date":"2017-10-07T16:34:20","date_gmt":"2017-10-07T14:34:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cognitionandculture.local\/?p=5676"},"modified":"2023-08-22T17:06:18","modified_gmt":"2023-08-22T15:06:18","slug":"what-it-took-for-break-up-songs-to-become-cultural-items","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cognitionandculture.local\/blogs\/helena-miton\/what-it-took-for-break-up-songs-to-become-cultural-items\/","title":{"rendered":"What it took for break-up songs to become cultural items"},"content":{"rendered":"
Some of the skills you develop as a PhD student were not on the program. Now two years into my PhD, I realize that I have become much better at composing nice playlists, and in particular break-up songs playlists. Admittedly, this is not what I thought I\u2019d get good at, but, well, it still counts as a skill or knowledge of some sort, and I enjoy my newly-won status of information-provider. After years been given advice about music by others, ending up in the position of the adviser feels like an achievement.<\/p>\n
Keeping on with the idea that any cultural item can serve as a useful toy model of some sort, I\u2019ll suggest here that break-up songs may help us think about interdependence among cultural items. I will also argue that such interdependence can be used as a criterion for cumulative cultural evolution, in a way that is especially useful for defining \u201ccumulative\u201d for the aspect of culture that, unlike technology, evolve without becoming \u201cbetter\u201d in any clear sense.<\/p>\n
First things first, let\u2019s define the object under investigation: break-up (and post-break-up) songs. Interestingly enough, although there are dozens of pages of playlists of them, this \u2018genre\u2019 doesn\u2019t seem to have been defined anywhere as such. Break-up and post-break-up songs may have a sad or more energetic mood; they do not conform to any one given musical genre. What binds them in one category is the tenor of their lyrics, focused on romantic disappointments, people\u2019s lives taking different paths, or someone overcoming the pain caused by a break-up.<\/p>\n
Here are a couple of prototypical examples. To begin with, the most famous break-up song: I will survive<\/em> by Gloria Gaylor. It begins:<\/p>\n At first, I was afraid, I was petrified Or take the lyrics of Mittens<\/em> by Frank Turner:<\/p>\n Cause I once wrote you love songs The very existence of such break-up songs (as that of pretty much anything in modern life) is contingent on many other cultural items. These other items belong to a large range of domains, technical, artistic, normative… Here is a quick, non-exhaustive list, in two parts.<\/p>\n\n
\nKept thinking, I could never live without you by my side
\nBut then I spent so many nights thinking, how you did me wrong
\nAnd I grew strong and I learned how to get along.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n
\n<\/span>You never fell in love
\n<\/span>We used to fit like mittens, but never like gloves
\nYou left me feeling like
\nWe’d never really been in love<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n